At first I wasn't sure about this guy, but the more we communicated the more I could see how much we had in common, and how much fun we could have together if we met in person.
So we met for dinner downtown about a week and half ago. It was a great evening. Dinner, dessert, drinks afterwards, lots of conversation and getting to know each other. And we made plans to get together then next Sunday.
Talking the day after our date, we decided to get together for dinner on Saturday night too because there was a restaurant I knew of that I thought he'd like. We had another great night, just hanging out, talking and enjoying each others' company.
Sunday morning he text'd me to say he couldn't make it for our plans that afternoon. No problem, I was kind of tired and could use a day without any plans, so we decided to get together the next weekend instead, and maybe cook dinner together sometime during the week. He must really like me, huh?
Turns out things weren't going as well as I thought. On Thursday he e-mailed me to say he's been hanging out with his ex, and that with the weather getting colder he's not up to going out a lot, so he wished me well in finding someone else. What I find funny is the fact that I already knew what was going to happen. I could recognize a pattern that occurs in my life fairly often, and I knew that no matter how well everything had gone up to that point, that he wasn't as into me as I had hoped for.
So, at what point can you say that someone has broken up with you? Do you have to be officially boy/girlfriend? Seeing each other exclusively? Or can it just be when you find someone that you're so comfortable with and attracted to that you can see having a future together, and finding out he doesn't feel the same?
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